We were all born equal. The world is essentially the same, until we learn to use our heads and make judgments. Every time we judge something as right/wrong, we create an inequality, and it is this inequality that defines us and also what we are judging. Thus the world at the end of the judgement is not the same as it was before. The more you judge, the more you define yourself and the world around you – the more your self becomes apparent. Now whether this ‘newly’ acquired self-conciousness is right/wrong is still open for judgment by another.

What does this have to do with me at all? Well, I’ve had a lot of people around me judging me on the way I am. I myself have taken this quite seriously and have begun judging my own self. The world would definitely be a cheerful and playful place without so much judgement. But we have to grow and we have to define our limits and only judgments on each other can get us there. So a peaceful playful atmosphere lasts only as long as we don’t judge each other. The moment this happens, differences start creeping into our relationships with others and the happy game soon comes to a finish. That’s how we lose friends, through differences created either by our own judgments or their judgments. So can we stop judging? The answer is no, we have to evolve and we have to define ourselves more and more with each passing second. The solution is to learn to live with them. Don’t live in denial, if someone is making too many judgments in you or finding flaws then maybe your relation with them is going to change in the future – either for better or worse.

You must have heard people say the phrase that someone has “moved on in life”, well it is through their own judgments  and through the judgments of those around them that they have done so.